Sprinkle Humor In Your Relationship



Why do we love the sense of Humor?

Having a partner who can lighten up a mood is one of the best ways to relax from the daily struggles of life. It also makes one feel comfortable and gives the feeling of not being judged.

Laughing is one of the best medicines. It releases dopamine, oxytocin, and endorphins. Dopamine helps enhance learning capabilities, and oxytocin is the bonding chemical that helps relate to someone.

 Humor is like salt in any relationship, which one cannot see, but it adds flavor to life. We all feel happy and confident to be with someone who can laugh and make us laugh. People who enjoy every day as a gift and see the light-heartedness of life.

 Do you know that adding Humor to your relationships can enhance longevity and strengthen it? Thinking about how to be humorous around your partner. 



Here are seven simple tips on how you can add Humor to your relationship

  • Be spontaneous: During a conversation, your partner may end up saying something serious try to find the pun or a joke in those words. In this situation, it is essential to be quick on your feet and remember timing matters.

Meanwhile, it is equally important to be mindful of the situation or the topic to prevent looking insensitive to your partner.

  • Have some inside jokes: Having secret jokes between you two can be fun, especially in a social situation where you are the only people who will get the joke. This little secret between you two will make you feel like a team.

  • Find out what makes them laugh: Surprise them with standup comedy shows. Humor does not always mean that you have to be funny all the time. There are so many exciting comedy shows going on. Surprise your partner with one such show and watch some good live comedy specials. 

This will give you a breather from funny to be all the time and show that you enjoy people with a good sense of humor.

  • Plan creative dates: Creativity is one of the best ways to make your relationship spicy and vibrant. Instead of planning your next date in a fancy restaurant, try taking your partner to a museum, a fun house, or even a park where you can do some nice people-watching and enjoy a harmless fun moment. Find something funny in the space around you.

Ensure to be mindful in search of Humor in the outside world and not to hurt someone's sentiments unknowingly.

  • Laugh at yourself: It's good to be silly sometimes. Let your partner see how comfortable you are with your flaws. Try to laugh at yourself once in a while, and show your partner how confident you are with yourself. It is an attractive quality one looks for in a person.

When cracking jokes upon yourself, ensure that it does not look crass or an effort to hide your flaws.

  • Tease your partner: A little banter in your relationship can encourage you and your partner to be able to look across each other's flaws. Be mindful that you are not hurting your partner and know the boundaries between you. It is essential to be respectful of each other.

Every couple has a different approach when expressing love to each other. It is important to know that you are aware of how and even to be humorous with each other. With time, the bond strengthens, and you learn a lot about each other.

Studies have shown that humor does increase relationship satisfaction among couples. So what are you waiting for? Go ahead, unleash your funny bones and impress your partner. 

 


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