The Power of Compliments

"You look beautiful."

"That jacket looks perfect on you."

"You make amazing food."

Compliments are a self-esteem booster! Hearing your partner say something nice to you is a feeling of 'being at home.' It has also been proven scientifically!

Scientists say that when one receives a compliment, certain parts of the brain get activated and receive a reward. Which mostly is the 'feeling good' or sometimes even the one moment that sets or changes an individual's mood.

 

Compliment: Change of Emotion

Compliments are a way of expressing your love toward your partner. Show your partner that you notice how they carry themselves and what they do and validate their efforts. It is a way to make your partner feel good about themselves.

A compliment given to a loved one by their partner is an emotional boost. It could put them in a better place if they are having a bad day or make them smile if they are having a hard time. Compliments are like the small packet of positive energy you can aim at your loved one. You could end up making their day or setting a positive mood for the rest of the day.

 Building the foundation Stronger

You complimenting your partner could make the foundation of your relationship stronger. Here is how it happens. Hearing that one compliment from you makes your partner believe that you are noticing their tiny details. It makes them feel validated and think that they have all your attention.

This further helps build trust in the relationship between you and your partners. A sense of knowing each other well further helps create a comfortable space with your partner.

 Boosting Sense of Security

Saying things that make your partner feel conformed and at home with you is precisely what compliments do. Your partner hearing good things about themselves from you can be the source of an immediate self-esteem booster. Making our partners feel that they have one particular human on this planet that they can count on. This makes them feel a sense of security. Making them feel safe and worthwhile when they are accompanied by you.

 Ways to Compliment, your Partner

• Say something about the way they have dressed up. Your partner would love to hear you compliment them about their dress. Most people put a lot of thought into how they dress up and when they get appreciated for it, it makes them feel good about themselves.

• Actions: Appreciating your partner for the kind of action or behavior they display for others is a good compliment. Acknowledging their humbleness and their generous or hard-working behavior is something your partner would love to hear about. 

• Try to put in some effort, notice what is different about your partner's behavior, and admire that particular behavior. This will let you know what is so different about your partner and make your partner feel like they have all your attention.

• Admire them when they achieve a goal: This enables you to inject 'encouragement' into your relationship. It becomes essential to support one another in a relationship, primarily when you both work towards achieving a specific goal in life. Using compliments to encourage your partner's efforts favors building a positive attitude and environment in the relationship. Which is then crucial for every relationship.

• Appreciate what they have or own: "Your bag looks perfect" or "I like your room setup." Complimenting your partner on the things that they own, in a way, indicates that they are good at decision-making in terms of things they own, buy or keep for themselves. This encourages your partner to put more excellent thought into what they want to own. I also help them realize what fits or looks good in their personality.

Compliments are a good way of initiating a conversation you have been attempting to begin for a long time. It can set the base of a particular interaction or relationship when you start an exchange or a relationship with a compliment.

Don't ever hesitate to admire someone and compliment them for it. You could make them feel good about themselves or even light up their day.

Have your chance at complimenting your partner or your potential partner and see how that works out for you!

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